Intervija ar pasaulslavenu savaldzinātāju – Taylor Truth(angliski).

Beidzot pēc ilgām vēstules apmaiņām ir pabeigta intervija ar leģendāro savaldzinātāju Taylor Truth. Viņš arī zināms kā TheCostOfSucess. Savaldzinātāju vidū ir sen zināms tāds jēdziens kā sexual tension jeb latviski, seksuālā spriedze. Šis cilvēks ir leģendārs ar to, ka pacēla seksuālo spriedzi jaunā līmenī un ir tās lietpratējs. Ir pieejami daži raksti par to, kā šis savaldzinātājs izveido neiedomājamas situācijas starp viņu un sievietēm sekunžu laikā. Viņš nesen arī izdevis grāmatu, kura jau sēž manā grāmatu plauktā(un tā ir lieliska, starpcitu).

Sakontaktēju viņu un viņš piekrita atbildēt uz dažiem jautājumiem. Manuprāt, intervija izdevusies lieliska ņemot vērā to, ka viņu ir diezgan grūti dabūt rokā. Viņš atteicās no mutiskas intervijas, jo vēlējās saglabāt privātumu. Viņa mājaslapa ir www.whatwefindattractive.com.

Tātad, lūk intervijas galarezultāts. Pašlaik pieejams tikai angliskā versijā, bet drīzumā es to pārtulkošu latviski priekš tiem, kam angļu valoda nav tik augstā līmenī.

1. What does seduction mean to you?

Seduction is about creating experiences between yourself and others that resonate with satisfying qualities that will last you till the end of your days. Looking back upon your life, you are filled with a warm glow at the fond memories that you can call as one day your own. Seduction to me means to create an experience between yourself and a partner. The vitality simply flowing between one another is so refined and beautiful. To me seduction is everything. And with it, a look, a touch, and even sex become so much more.
Fulfilling, satisfying.. Sexy!

2. What do you think about the methods of seduction?

There really are no methods to seduction.
When you are following all kinds of methods, you are just trying to get in someone’s pants.
Not that it is a bad thing or anything. However, I much prefer seducing, and not worrying about
getting into anyone’s pants. It’s so much more fun that way. Variety is the spice of life right?

3. What do you think is the biggest obstacle for pickup artists when
they want to get good?

Often it’s just a lack of passion and even more importantly IMAGINATION. In the western world
anyways.. Satisfaction, is the hardest goal to achieve, for men and especially women.
I don’t see why everyone tries to achieve answers, and ego boosts. Just spend a long time refining
and making beautiful something you can control. Like a kiss with your girlfriend. Work on it, make
it really resonate, and discover what you can do with it.
Have imagination, imagine how it could be better and do it.
Seduction in the end isn’t about attaining sex at all. Don’t be smart and right, be imaginative.
Create something so awesomely cool, that it’s something great to be a part of.

4. How can a man get better at seduction?

Depends on the person, but generally good health helps. Being happier and
more vibrant in your daily life definitely helps.
Then of course there is opening one’s imagination (and eventually perception) to a larger world (the
kinds of things I provide in my website and book).
It’s not so much about learning, as it is about opening your mind and starting to discover what is
around you. Learn to be seductive with someone you trust. Or if you are remarkable, then be remarkable,
surprise me. You got to remember, I didn’t get there by following somebody else.

5. How do you see your game?

I never really intended to be a seducer. It kind of took me by surprise. I was just living my life, and
then one day coming out of a bar after work, things changed. Something was wrong, I could just
feel it. I suppose it was a strong contrast, between a party scene, into this dark and ominous feeling.
I looked over into the distance, and thought I saw this girl get followed around the corner by this
man. I couldn’t be sure, but something possessed me, and I began to run calmly. Getting to the
corner I slowed. As I came around the corner, the girl looked at me.. I then stepped up, and fought
the guy off, and then took the poor shaken girl back to her place and wished her well.
Little did I know, the next week when walking out, the same thing would happen. Man, the place
must have been going to hell, twice in a row, what are the chances.
Long story short, I call the girl a taxi before anything happens, she hops in, and I turn around to a
girl I’d been talking to. Now I’d been interested in how things work for a while, but when I turned to her, I just knew.
There was this quality between us.. Everything just faded to black. And we were swept up in
passion and blown away by the experience.
After that night, I had to have more. I thirsted for it.. And after a while, I grew so familiar with this
chemistry that I became a seducer.

6. What means sexual tension?

Tension is very vast, you can’t explain it in one go, or even
many. It is an energy that at times pervades us, exists between us, and
causes our actions to become in sync with each other.
To those who don’t understand it, there isn’t much I can say.
On that night, it was what made us so close to each other. It was what made us whisper as we were
but a breath away. Sexual tension was what locked us on each other, no longer able to turn away.
It was what gave me passion, and thrust us both into each other’s arms, to experience something so
much more.

7. How did you start with sexual tension and where you are now?

I started off, accidentally..
I was fairly happy looking for that one special person to spend my life with. I didn’t expect to
discover something that would change my life forever, enriching it in ways I could never have
imagined. I suppose I started like everyone does, that eye contact that causes your heart to beat so
much faster, or that hold from someone that makes you shudder.
Eventually, this took me down an interesting path of discovery, till I
realised, I truly had become and always was, a seducer. And by that time, I could seduce people
without words, without even a touch. Simply able to seduce with a look, or a breath, or my presence
entering the room.

8. How can a person begin to learn and understand sexual tension?

They can do many things.
One thing they can do is to work on their kiss.
There are many things you can do with a kiss.
You just need to believe it, and never believe you’ve reached the limit.
So the sky is the limit, make your kisses feel however you want them too. Mix it up. Create
incredible qualities that enrich and make pure everything your lips touch.
Take inspiration from fiction if you have to.
Then from there, move onto your hands. The way you touch. You’ll know how,
after you’ve learnt to kiss with all kinds of qualities.
There isn’t really a right way, so don’t be scared, there is just your way, and that takes time to refine
and make gorgeous.

9. How important are details in seduction and could you describe how
they are connected to sexual tension.

I’m often fairly descriptive when talking about something that has
happened. Often it’s because its hard to truly grasp what really happens
during a seduction unless you are really keen of eye. Also I really want
people to experience the satisfaction and pleasure that can be had by
doing things in such a way.
The details are important in so much that they help connect the reader to
the most important part of seduction. The experience!
No conquest is important, no milestone is particularly rewarding, but to
start feeling as you want to feel, and have that spread throughout your
life and into others as well, is a pretty satisfying thing.
So details could be said, to have the most important role in seduction.
For it is in the intricacies that the beauty really lies.
If one simply has basic skills to ‘get’ women for example, they won’t
truly be capable of accessing what it’s more about. They will get women,
but seducing will be far over their head.
In my experience, there is no point, without the seduction. Thusly there
is no real point, without the intricate details that are the experience.
So take your time, don’t rush, and give the situation ROOM to breathe.
Create a little tension, and maybe, just maybe, some sparks will fly. And
if they do, you’ll have a more full experience.

10. Describe seduction situations in which you are most successful. What is going on inside and
outside of you.

The most successful seductions are very genuine. Something that I think is
worth the hard work and effort I will put in.
Also, there are sometimes just good days. I ride those, and don’t
worry about other ones so much.
What often goes on inside of me during a seduction is that I am actually
very genuinely in a good, productive, cool and likeable mood. It’s not
terribly difficult, just find a time when you get on with people well and
you aren’t too moody, and try to evoke that a bit more often.
Then when I’m in a good mood I’ll find people are more receptive and
friendly, so it won’t be such a forceful thing for me to go talk etc.
Also, its best if the girl (or the man if you are a girl), is in a good
mood too. You don’t want to spend a lot of effort on someone with
storm clouds raging over them. And often my most successful seductions are
in part due to finding very cool women, whom I genuinely want to spend
some time with.

11. What obstacles does sexual tension helps to overcome and why?

A lot of people see a mind field of rules, and issues to overcome. I’d have
people focus on the experience, and sexual tension, because I know that
seduction is a creative thing.
There aren’t really any rules to creating a good situation. You can use
principles to help guide you, however, you shouldn’t be thinking
analysing, and overly planning things, or the experience you create will
be fake and lack true SOUL and PASSION.
Nobody wants to feel like the obstinate machine, that the engineer kicks,
to get started. Nor do they want their partner putting reading glasses on,
and very awkwardly analysing their own kiss as they do so.
Sexual tension is mostly a tool. A tool to get you to stop thinking so
much and to instead create an experience.
In the end, that is the recipe, to satisfaction with your lover. To be able to create experiences,
without thinking about it too much. Its chemistry.

12. Tell us more about your book. How did you come to the realization
that you want to write one and about what is it? Where can we find
your book?

You can find my book on my website www.whatwefindattractive.com, but also on Amazon. It
should also be orderable in bookstores by asking. It costs £35 (British pounds), and is called ‘What
We Find Attractive: The Mystique Of Seduction’ by Taylor Truth.
I wrote it because I didn’t want to have to keep repeating myself about the philosophies of
seduction. My mind wasn’t going to change. I knew quite well what it was, what it was about, and
I felt the best way to help people wasn’t just to talk about pieces of it forever but instead give them
access to it as a whole. I felt I was going to be saying the same thing over
and over again, so the book just made it easy for me to hand my thoughts to someone, and go ‘there
you go’.
I was also feeling I wanted to move on, I have a lot more to me than just being a seducer. But
having so beautifully understood seduction, it was a shame if it would never see the light of day. So
after a lot of encouragement, and quite a few suggestions and attempts to get me to write one, I was
like okay, I’ll do it.
Mostly I wrote it to free myself of having to talk about seduction ‘in depth’. I much prefer just
enjoying it. I don’t mind talking seduction, however, if someone is desperately after answers, I can’t
just spend my time coaching everyone. So I wrote the book, to basically give people something that
isn’t out there, and still wouldn’t be out there if I didn’t write it.